ValleyGal,
I understand your frustration, but like sorrento said, it's not a matter of selfishness. In addition to the reasons (s)he stated, financial aid plays a huge role in the final decision. I don't know about everyone else, but I only got my financial aid decisions (some of them not even final) in the past week or so. All the same, I'm sorry if by holding multiple acceptances I caused anyone undue stress.