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Dear (future) self,
I imagine that you’re busy right now. Like really busy. Like the coffee-driven, adrenaline-fueled, sleep-deprived kind of busy that you experienced to a lesser degree in medical school except now you’re actually expected to care for patients. Of course, by “care for patients,” I mean “avoid doing dumb things to patients.” A terrifying thought, the burden of patient care, but I’m sure you’re learning and becoming more confident by the day. Why, you’re becoming a real physician now! No longer do you float around the hospital following the residents around like a duckling, attempting to show that you too can think independently and provide assessments and plans like a good medical student. No, you are the resident now. The follower has become the followed. You are the mama duck.
And so, self, I am here writing to you as a current medical student on appropriate ways to deal with these so-called ducklings. It seems to me that the vast majority of residents tend to forget what it once was like to be a duckling. How it felt to desperately yearn to have actual responsibility over patients or to be constantly, actively thinking about each and every patient problem because it hasn’t yet become automatic. The algorithms that physicians instantly zip through in their head run a little (okay, a lot) slower in these duckling students. I know they run a little slower in my head now, but with time and practice, these things will become automatic, as I imagine they are for you and most residents. I would like to think that you’re self-aware enough to remember a time when you struggled with the great transformation from didactic thinking to clinical thinking and are thus gentle to any student in the midst of the learning process. But just as a reminder, here are a handful of tips, as selected by your younger self, a current medical student, to better handle any medical students you may encounter during the resident journey:
And so, self, I think most of my advice to you, the resident, on dealing with medical students harkens back to the adage of “Remember where you once came from.” We were all learners at one point or another. We struggled, we goofed up and we endured. Never ever forget that you were once the person struggling in front of you. That you once lacked the innate confidence and instinctual knowledge you now possess. Teach your students when you have free time. Make sure they know the team’s lunch plans for the day. Give them advice on where to park and when to show up. Make them look good in front of attendings. Don’t make them feel awkward if they come dangerously close to following you into the restroom. Be the best mama duck that you can be, and treat those ducklings with grace, finesse and kindness. I know you can do it during your residency and beyond.
Love,
Your (younger) self
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